From Premal 10th May 2011

Our Beloved Nani… As you commence your next journey of being together with Bapu… MESSAGE:My dear children and yes all of them be it my children, my grand children or anyone younger to me… (I consider all of you as my children) Well well, I know that you all might be feeling ke aa Nani to bhare ekdum achanak j updi gaya.. but hun to mari man ni raja chu… aa vakhate man thai gayu ke sansar ni saghali javabdariyo, ujavaniyo, khushi , shok ne karamaat to bahu joi, have samay che tamara bapu pase pahochi ne mandi ne vaat karvano.. Ke emna gaya pachina 29 varsh ma shu thayu …amara vache ni vaato ni thodi jhalak tamne pan aapi du ne puchi lau ke tamare kai ama umervu che. Bapu ne kehva ke temni aa Mem’ mobile upar pan vat thi loko ne direct kari shake che ne mobile aavta to Nani’s Network ni connectivity , real time news ne companion ship koi pan mobile network ke tv network na TRP ke subscriber base ne takkar mari shake… Bichara Bapu ne to mand mand kyal avshe ke bhala aa mobile bala shu che!!!;) Potana chokra na lagan ma mahalvano umang hoye pan prasang par padvani jawabdari ne lidhe thoda vyast hoye, pan grand children na lagan ma je mahalvani maja che, e to mein je maani che …bahuj maja padi gai… Ane ha Bapu ne e pan kehevanu, ke tamari chaturya ne diplomatic kuneh na paath mein amal ma muki ne bahu pragmatic approach lai mari vahaali Komal ne oli Foram no milaap pan temna hriday samrat saathe karavyo… Bapu tame mota Hafkin ke Karamsad na bhale director how, pan hu to mara Jhala parivaar ni CEO chu… ane TATA/Infosys na movdi o bhale bhare mathaman karta ke temna CEO na gaya pachi shu,,, apde to bhai evi rite vahivat kariyo che ke tamara ne mara gaya pachi aapda darek santano pot potana shetra ma kabeliyat thi potanaj CEO thai gaya che… What more can we as parents ask and what more can an effective succession plan look like… Sandeep – Nira, ke Jitendrabhai – Raksha, ke Palli – Manojeet, ke Ashokbhai- Bhavna ke Avdhesh – Samiksha … potapotana kutumb na agresar and bahuj prem thi sambhal rakhnara agevan che Mare temne e pan kehvu che ke apda santano na santan etle ke oli golden Jharna hoye ke pachi most favorite Komal,ke Foram, ke Nishant, ke harshit, manthan, drashti, maitri, kanan, ashish,, badhaj bhani gani ne potana karya shetra ma aval darajanu kaam kare che… ane apno ashish to doctory ni chothi pedhi ni dharohar sambhali betho che..… emna jeevan sathi premal, Asif, ushut, shefali, jalshri, margee pan mara prem na dariya ni mithap mani chukya che. Bus etli j ichha ne prathana ishwar prabhu ne ke amara drashti ben, kanan ben , ashish, maitri ne pan avagj jeevan sahti no milaap kari dejo… ne bhale ne mari ke Bapu ni pratayksh hajari nahi hoye pan paroksh rite tamara sau na prasang ma ane khas kari ne garba ne lagan ni taiyari man to jaroor manshu… Ane emne e pan kahish ke aapna grand grand children man bhare maja na che… Anvi behen no gujarati garbo hoye ke dia nu kajra re, ke pachi rohin ni dhaamal ke pachi manya nu aagman… maro to ej pratayan rahyo che ke hun temne, temna maa baap ne ane nava banela dada dadi/ nana nani saathe maro umar bhar no anubhav share kari shaku ne bane etli madad karu… Aa salu pag nu tenshion rahya kart tu, pan apde to bindaas… koi kahe etli j vaar, walker ne Schumaker ni ferrai samji ne pahochi javanu… Mare shu vaat karvani che e to mane bahu yaad che ne thay che ke tamne badha ne pan kahi dau… karan ke tamne to khabar che.. Mari pase secret jevu bahu kai rehtu nathi.. Pan aa vakhte jov chu ke rakhi shaku chu hun secret? Astu – Nani no sneh ne ashirwaad. Dearest Nani.. While you have explained your rationale of departing us so abruptly, let me tell you that you will be sorely missed… For the immense love that you have blessed us with… For showing us that yes the saying “WILL will find a Way” is absolutely true. For personifying courage and determination to live Life and not Leave life amidst any of the oddest circumstances For having the wonderful ability to be There for each and every one of us.. You are and will be the Nani /Dadi to not only ur grandchildren, but their spouses, their friends, their own neighbors, their household support staff, and almost the entire universe.. I am sorry that I could not be there in person to pay my last respects to you nor will be in the prayer meeting later today to be held in your respect, but if you were there you would have only told me ke Premal tame Dia ni sambhal rakhjo .. And give me the backing of a practical advise and wisdom… Love you and may the almighty eternal grace and your soul rest in peace and continue to bless us with its divine love and affection. Premal